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Sunday, July 26, 2009

DISASTROUS RELATIONSHIP

There are few signs when you are in a disaster relationship.
Firstly dishonesty.
Everyone tells white lies on occasion .
Some white lies do save relationships and some even ease a hectic situation.
However, frenquent white lies may exacerbate the situation as both of you do not know what are your partner really thinking.
Avoid concealling the truth from each other if it is possible.

Secondly, communication problems.
Many couples face communication problems.
It is a huge factor in a relationship.
They try to work on their problems yet always ending up in an argument.
Try to listen to your partner and hear what they want to tell you.
Feeling as though we are being heard and truly understood, sets an extremely positive climate in a relationship.
Think it in their perspective, what if when you are expressing yourself and your partner is not listening to you?
I wager that you will utterly agitated and ready to argue.
But when your partner hears what you are saying and paying attention on it, for no doubt, you will feel calm and delighted.
So it is just the same when you also do so on them.
And avoid having a dispute with your partner as it may frustrated one another.

Besides, putting the other on a pedestal and putting yourself down is also a sign of disastrous relationship.
It may sounds ridiculous or exaggerate but it is true.
Do not over admire someone.

Ultimately, distructive urge also will causes disastrous relationship.
Do not ever have an impulse on doing something which may hurt yourself or your partner.
Sometimes, it is useless to perpetuate the relationship that has already faded.
So learn to let go.

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