SARCASM

Sarcasm is a form of humor that uses mean language which intended
to mock,
to contempt or
to ridicule others.
It may hurts that person directly or indirectly. (especially your friends...)

Different people have different perceptions and belief.
And what someone may consider to be harmless could actually be hurtful to another.
Some people are just plain mean.
They do not bother examining their own flaws before spouting insults casually.

Besides, sarcasm can be both witty and intelligent.
It does not happen by accident.
It is a tool wielded with deliberation .
It exists on both the verbal and the non-verbal plane.
Directed at others, it hurts others; directed at one’s self, it hurts one’s self.
Thus, stop judging.

Learn to observe without acting.
When you find yourself in judgment of others, remember that we are never more discontented with others than when we are discontented with ourselves."
Stop looking outward and start looking inward.
Stop making fun of others especially your friends.
You may think that insulting your friends are nothing as you guys are friends.
It is actually the most hurtful thing ever.
Try and imagine what if your friends were mocking at your shortcoming?
What do you feel?
The one that you can rely on and entrust is making fun of your weakness.
It is really that fun?
Indeed you are not just making others feel bad but making your self feel bad.
Remember that you have a choice every time you speak.
Try weighing everything you say.
Ask your self first whether it is necassary to speak it out or not.
If the answer is no then leave that thing unsaid.
On the contrary, if it is necassary to say it just find a way to say it kindly.
Replace your noxious old habit with a healing new habit.
The way people treat you is the outer reflection of your inner self-worth.
It is not necessary to speak aloud everything you think.
Between honesty and duplicity lies silence.
Choose silence.
Your cutting words are not averting any crises.
They create crises.
Think twice before you say...

TRUANCY

This is the result of playing truant.
So sweet~!!
Love you guys~ ♥ ♥ ♥

REALITY

Sometimes, the reality is hurt.
However we must confront with it.
Problems cannot be solved if we are concealing from the truth.

Be tough, take your guts to overcome it.
Do not have a cold feet to solve it.
In the process it maybe hurt.
You maybe lugubrious.
But if you do not take any actions, you will be overwhelmed by it or just stuck at there forever.
Especially when you are in a relationship and your partner are capitalizing on your shortcoming.

Wake up and be the one who initiates the solution.
Do not ever give yourself a false hope.
And the most indispensable is do not have cringe at your problems or engulfed by your feeling.
Retreating from problems is the trigger for everything.
As long as your problem is solved all your sadness will be quelled.

Last but not least, do not give yourself strung of excuses, everything is hinge on your decision and action.
So stop procrastinating and take your action now!

P/S it is just for myself...