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Saturday, February 27, 2010

APOLOGIES

Sometimes not everything can be solved by just apologizing.
Apology alone cannot solve anything. ( I mean something that is very serious )
No matter how many times you have apologize, it is useless.
Unless you are going to show your sincerity by taking action.
Stop pretending like you are really care or feel guilty about it.
If you really feel guilty please take your action instead of apologizing or blaming yourself how useless you are.
Stop claiming that you are very regret or sorry for what you have done.
Stop giving excuses.
It is really distasteful.
It make people feel jaded.
An apology with an excuse is not an apology.
Take full responsibility for what you did.
Tell people you will learn from your mistake,
and that you will take action to change and grow.
If your apology is not accepted just be patient and wait.
Sometimes people want to forgive you, but they still need a little time to cool off.
Lastly stick to your word.
A true apology entails a resolution.
You have to carry out your promise in order for the apology to be sincere and complete.
Otherwise, your apologies will lose their meaning, and trust may disappear beyond the point of no return.

Sunday, February 7, 2010

LIFE PARTNER

What is the most interest to young people?
1. Physical appearance
2. Getting more money
3. Getting a job they like
4. Choosing a suitable life partner

This was the topic that we discussed during our "MUET" lesson last week.
Most of my classmates chose physical appearance and getting more money.
I was the only one who chose choosing a suitable life partner!!!!
Actually I wanted to choose getting more money...
But since almost everyone already chose money and appearance
so I just chose something that is different =P

Money is unequivocally important in today's society.
Without money we can't do anything we want.
For examples,
Without money we can't further our studies or pursue our goals.
We can't even cover our daily expenses if we are penniless!!!!

However there are something that we can't buy even thought we are wealthy...
Such as love and friendship.
Money does not necessary bond to bring us happiness.
Even with vast wealth, our life will be doomed if we are lonely
as no man is and island.
No man can stand alone.
We need companionship
Therefore, I think that choosing a life partner is the most important decisions we need to make in our life.

For me, life partner is someone that I can rely on in my entire life.
Someone that is willing to share happiness and sadness with me.
Someone that is always there for me and care about me.
Someone that will comfort me when I'm upset.
Someone that gives me advices when I make any mistakes.

=)