EGOCENTRIC

Frankly speaking, almost everyone is selfish.
Well it is true right?
That's human.
I'm also selfish.
But no matter how, we must care about others too right?
Being selfish for certain time is alright, but do care about others as well.

FUN DAY WITH SHI YUN~~~

"Make over" at Shi Yun's house yesterday~~~
It was such a long time we did not spend our time together!!
Miss you a lot Shi Yun!!!!!
Muacks~~~~~~~
Victim no 1 a.k.a me.

Victim no 2 a.k.a Joanne.

The only survival a.k.a Jen was chit chatting with KK that time.

Before and after

Straight or curl better? o.O

WE ARE THE BEST!!!!!!!!

Participated "Kolam" competition today.

Yi Min, Jenny and I really put much efforts on it!!!

It is quite funny that 3 of us are Chinese.

We never thought that we would join this competition.

Because we never heard of it...

And we know nothing about it...

We are totally in the dark about it

like what ingredients are needed how to dye the rices and so so on!!!

HAHA!!

I really love anything that related to arts!

Really enthusiastic about it.

That is why I thought that I could win the competition as we are the only group who made different tones of colour...

AND we are the only group with pure Chinese!!!

I'm really proud of myself and my friends of course!

It was our 1st time to make it yet we really did it tremendously nice!!!!

But of course the reality is mean as there are some biased and racist people there...

I do not want to care about the results and the way "some people" treated us...

As long as I know that we had tried our best

and IT IS ABSOLUTELY the best ever =)

WE ARE THE CHAMPION~~~~~~

Thanks Yi Min, Jenny and everyone who supported us~~

Really enjoyed it!

Muacks~~~

APOLOGIES

Sometimes not everything can be solved by just apologizing.

Apology alone cannot solve anything. ( I mean something that is very serious )

No matter how many times you have apologize, it is useless.

Unless you are going to show your sincerity by taking action.

Stop pretending like you are really care or feel guilty about it.

If you really feel guilty please take your action instead of apologizing or blaming yourself how useless you are.

Stop claiming that you are very regret or sorry for what you have done.

Stop giving excuses.

It is really distasteful.

It make people feel jaded.

An apology with an excuse is not an apology.

Take full responsibility for what you did.

Tell people you will learn from your mistake,

and that you will take action to change and grow.

If your apology is not accepted just be patient and wait.

Sometimes people want to forgive you, but they still need a little time to cool off.

Lastly stick to your word.

A true apology entails a resolution.

You have to carry out your promise in order for the apology to be sincere and complete.

Otherwise, your apologies will lose their meaning, and trust may disappear beyond the point of no return.

LIFE PARTNER

What is the most interest to young people?
1. Physical appearance
2. Getting more money
3. Getting a job they like
4. Choosing a suitable life partner

This was the topic that we discussed during our "MUET" lesson last week.
Most of my classmates chose physical appearance and getting more money.
I was the only one who chose choosing a suitable life partner!!!!
Actually I wanted to choose getting more money...
But since almost everyone already chose money and appearance
so I just chose something that is different =P

Money is unequivocally important in today's society.
Without money we can't do anything we want.
For examples,
Without money we can't further our studies or pursue our goals.
We can't even cover our daily expenses if we are penniless!!!!

However there are something that we can't buy even thought we are wealthy...
Such as love and friendship.
Money does not necessary bond to bring us happiness.
Even with vast wealth, our life will be doomed if we are lonely
as no man is and island.
No man can stand alone.
We need companionship
Therefore, I think that choosing a life partner is the most important decisions we need to make in our life.

For me, life partner is someone that I can rely on in my entire life.
Someone that is willing to share happiness and sadness with me.
Someone that is always there for me and care about me.
Someone that will comfort me when I'm upset.
Someone that gives me advices when I make any mistakes.

=)

FAITH

What is meant by faith?
Faith is confident belief in the truth, value, or trustworthiness of a person, idea, or thing.
It also means loyalty to a person or thing.
We need to have faith in everything...
Especially in a relationship...
It can be considered as the pillar of strength of a relationship.
Without faith and trust in relationship, the relationship will collapse easily.
Love is fragile without faith...
In order to have a strong relationship, we need to trust our partner!
It is the most indispensable value ever in relationships.
Therefore, just trust and believe the one you love.
Have faith in your partner and yourself!!

A REAL WOMAN

Women and Men are inextricable.
When there are REAL MEN...
of course there are REAL WOMEN as well.

LOL...

Okay so what is a real woman??

A woman who has enviable body?

A woman who has mesmerizing appearance?

Well different people have different preference...

BUT a real woman does not refer to the outer look of that woman!!

A real woman

1. Delight in her femininity

2. Is trustworthy and gains the respect of others

3. Restrains herself from malicious gossip and speaks with wisdom and direction

4. Encourages and builds up those who are around her

5. Does not have a nagging or manipulative manner in which she deals with others especially their loved one

(man does not fond on a woman who has such manner... agree?)

6. Does not wallow in self-pity but works hard to accomplish her dreams and goals

7. Holds her virginity before marriage as sacred!!!

Of course it is from what I have read from the articles too.

So do you agree with it??
Haha...