A REAL WOMAN

Women and Men are inextricable.
When there are REAL MEN...
of course there are REAL WOMEN as well.

LOL...

Okay so what is a real woman??

A woman who has enviable body?

A woman who has mesmerizing appearance?

Well different people have different preference...

BUT a real woman does not refer to the outer look of that woman!!

A real woman

1. Delight in her femininity

2. Is trustworthy and gains the respect of others

3. Restrains herself from malicious gossip and speaks with wisdom and direction

4. Encourages and builds up those who are around her

5. Does not have a nagging or manipulative manner in which she deals with others especially their loved one

(man does not fond on a woman who has such manner... agree?)

6. Does not wallow in self-pity but works hard to accomplish her dreams and goals

7. Holds her virginity before marriage as sacred!!!

Of course it is from what I have read from the articles too.

So do you agree with it??
Haha...

A REAL MAN

In our daily life, we always speak about real man...

So...

What is a REAL MAN??

And what is the characteristic of a real man??

A real man

1. Is wise, yet humble

2. Does not put others down with his actions, words or strength but affirms and builds others up

3. Protects those who are vulnerable

4. Respects and appreciates a lady's purity and innocence and shows women honor

5. Treats everyone with great respect

6. Does not blame others for his own problems butembraces responsibility

7. Willing to accept other people's opinions and learn from mistakes

8. Always strives to make virtuous

9. Will not forsake his loved one =X

Well it is what I have read from the articles...

And it is really interesting...~~~

I just choose the qualities that I personally reckon that are good.

And of course some of them are my own opinions.

Hahas.

So...

Are you a real man?? =P

DILATORINESS

It is common to see people being dilatory.
Especially in their relationship.
And mostly guys.
Well, I am not being sexist or trying to provoke anyone...
It is just based on what i have observed...

I just cannot figure out the reason why people running away from their problems.
Like Mr X does not like his girlfriend anymore
he could find strung of excuses in order to evade...

I know sometimes it is really hard to be so straight forward
because you scare that your partner may detest you...
And we also need enormous courage to tell others the truth like
"Sorry I don't like you anymore" or
"Sorry I like someone else".
HOWEVER if you keep delaying the problems.
It may get worse!!!
The longer you delay it the more you will hurt your partner!!!

AND DO NOT EVER give those stupid and utter nonsense reason as the excuses...!!!
Girls despise guys that are so irresponsible!!!

JUST tell the truth!!!!!!!!!
Stop procrastinating!!!
Be a real man and show your demeanour!!!
A real man should not procrastinate from the problems but take their resposible as a man!!!!

13-11-2009

Happy Birthday to you~

Happy Birthday to you~!

Happy Birthday to Shi Yun~!!

Happy Birthday to you~!!!

Happy Birthday to my beloved

~Shi Yun~

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muacks x 1000~!!

Sweetie~

The animated Shi Yun that I drew =P

Shi Yun and the animated Shi Yun~~ XD

Cutie Pui Mun and Ker Lee~~

Look at Joanne's expression!!

Once again our "Cake Woman" Joanne had accomplished her mission XD

Chinese Traditional Dance?

Huggie~!!!!!

Yun2 + Bao + Jo -> Best2 Friends!!!

The End

LEARN TO SAY NO

Sometimes, saying NO can be very difficult.
People with low self-esteem very often lack of assertiveness.
They think that they have to meet the expectations of everyone.
It is very hard for them to set limits with others.
They even feel ashamed or guilty if they would say NO.
However, to do things that against your will and possibilities will end up in feeling used and resentful.
Therefore, the best solution is a simple and direct "NO".
If you want to give an explanation you should keep it simple.
For examples, "NO, I have already......" or "Sorry, I am afraid I have to decline because......"
To say an assertive "NO", you just need to start the sentence with the word "NO".
Shake your head and use nonverbal assertiveness to underline your "NO".
If someone makes a request it is fair to ask for time to think it over.
The decision should be up to you.
Remember, saying NO is a very honourable response.
Everyone has the right to say NO.
Therefore, just reject others by saying a NO!!!!

GENTLEMAN

What is gentleman?
It refers to a well-mannered and considerate man with high standards of proper behavior.

And I met a "gentleman" yesterday.
The real "gentleman" ever.
Did his mother ever teach him virtue???
I really doubt that.
Let me teach you what should a gentleman do.

First of all please do treat others with respect.
Do not ever triffle with a girl.
Do you think that making fun of a girl is fun???
Is it really amusing?
What if other people are making fun of you.
Will you furious?
So, think from other perspectives before you take any actions.
Secondly,don't insult people.
Do not contempt or to ridicule others.
It may hurts that person.
What you do could actually be hurtful to others.
Bother examining your own flaws before spouting insults.
Listen to others when they speak.
Value other people's opinions.
Be considerate of people's likes and dislikes.
Be sensitive to other people's feelings.
Don't coerce someone to do something he or she doesn't want to do.

Do you think that bully someone who is vulnerable is fun???
If someone bullies you, what will you feel??
Somber?
Jubilant?
Detestable?
Pleasureable?
You will assurely in a fit of pique right???
Therefore, please respect others.
There is saying that "people treat you the way you treat yourself"
If you treat them courteously they will treat you courteously as well.
If you are amiable to them they will be amiable to you.
On the other hand, if you treat them in an impolite, disrespectful or unfriendly way they will treat you back in the same way.
You almost get back in the same coin that you give.
They pick up your attitude and reflect it back to you.

As conclusion, you are not a gentleman at all because you do not even cultivate any qualities as I meantion above.

P/S You sux =)

BLUE BLACK

Accidently hit a chair...

And this was the result...