A REAL WOMAN

Women and Men are inextricable.
When there are REAL MEN...
of course there are REAL WOMEN as well.

LOL...

Okay so what is a real woman??

A woman who has enviable body?

A woman who has mesmerizing appearance?

Well different people have different preference...

BUT a real woman does not refer to the outer look of that woman!!

A real woman

1. Delight in her femininity

2. Is trustworthy and gains the respect of others

3. Restrains herself from malicious gossip and speaks with wisdom and direction

4. Encourages and builds up those who are around her

5. Does not have a nagging or manipulative manner in which she deals with others especially their loved one

(man does not fond on a woman who has such manner... agree?)

6. Does not wallow in self-pity but works hard to accomplish her dreams and goals

7. Holds her virginity before marriage as sacred!!!

Of course it is from what I have read from the articles too.

So do you agree with it??
Haha...

A REAL MAN

In our daily life, we always speak about real man...

So...

What is a REAL MAN??

And what is the characteristic of a real man??

A real man

1. Is wise, yet humble

2. Does not put others down with his actions, words or strength but affirms and builds others up

3. Protects those who are vulnerable

4. Respects and appreciates a lady's purity and innocence and shows women honor

5. Treats everyone with great respect

6. Does not blame others for his own problems butembraces responsibility

7. Willing to accept other people's opinions and learn from mistakes

8. Always strives to make virtuous

9. Will not forsake his loved one =X

Well it is what I have read from the articles...

And it is really interesting...~~~

I just choose the qualities that I personally reckon that are good.

And of course some of them are my own opinions.

Hahas.

So...

Are you a real man?? =P

DILATORINESS

It is common to see people being dilatory.
Especially in their relationship.
And mostly guys.
Well, I am not being sexist or trying to provoke anyone...
It is just based on what i have observed...

I just cannot figure out the reason why people running away from their problems.
Like Mr X does not like his girlfriend anymore
he could find strung of excuses in order to evade...

I know sometimes it is really hard to be so straight forward
because you scare that your partner may detest you...
And we also need enormous courage to tell others the truth like
"Sorry I don't like you anymore" or
"Sorry I like someone else".
HOWEVER if you keep delaying the problems.
It may get worse!!!
The longer you delay it the more you will hurt your partner!!!

AND DO NOT EVER give those stupid and utter nonsense reason as the excuses...!!!
Girls despise guys that are so irresponsible!!!

JUST tell the truth!!!!!!!!!
Stop procrastinating!!!
Be a real man and show your demeanour!!!
A real man should not procrastinate from the problems but take their resposible as a man!!!!

13-11-2009

Happy Birthday to you~

Happy Birthday to you~!

Happy Birthday to Shi Yun~!!

Happy Birthday to you~!!!

Happy Birthday to my beloved

~Shi Yun~

♥♥♥ ♥♥♥

♥♥♥♥ ♥♥♥♥

♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

♥♥♥♥

♥

muacks x 1000~!!

Sweetie~

The animated Shi Yun that I drew =P

Shi Yun and the animated Shi Yun~~ XD

Cutie Pui Mun and Ker Lee~~

Look at Joanne's expression!!

Once again our "Cake Woman" Joanne had accomplished her mission XD

Chinese Traditional Dance?

Huggie~!!!!!

Yun2 + Bao + Jo -> Best2 Friends!!!

The End

LEARN TO SAY NO

Sometimes, saying NO can be very difficult.
People with low self-esteem very often lack of assertiveness.
They think that they have to meet the expectations of everyone.
It is very hard for them to set limits with others.
They even feel ashamed or guilty if they would say NO.
However, to do things that against your will and possibilities will end up in feeling used and resentful.
Therefore, the best solution is a simple and direct "NO".
If you want to give an explanation you should keep it simple.
For examples, "NO, I have already......" or "Sorry, I am afraid I have to decline because......"
To say an assertive "NO", you just need to start the sentence with the word "NO".
Shake your head and use nonverbal assertiveness to underline your "NO".
If someone makes a request it is fair to ask for time to think it over.
The decision should be up to you.
Remember, saying NO is a very honourable response.
Everyone has the right to say NO.
Therefore, just reject others by saying a NO!!!!

GENTLEMAN

What is gentleman?
It refers to a well-mannered and considerate man with high standards of proper behavior.

And I met a "gentleman" yesterday.
The real "gentleman" ever.
Did his mother ever teach him virtue???
I really doubt that.
Let me teach you what should a gentleman do.

First of all please do treat others with respect.
Do not ever triffle with a girl.
Do you think that making fun of a girl is fun???
Is it really amusing?
What if other people are making fun of you.
Will you furious?
So, think from other perspectives before you take any actions.
Secondly,don't insult people.
Do not contempt or to ridicule others.
It may hurts that person.
What you do could actually be hurtful to others.
Bother examining your own flaws before spouting insults.
Listen to others when they speak.
Value other people's opinions.
Be considerate of people's likes and dislikes.
Be sensitive to other people's feelings.
Don't coerce someone to do something he or she doesn't want to do.

Do you think that bully someone who is vulnerable is fun???
If someone bullies you, what will you feel??
Somber?
Jubilant?
Detestable?
Pleasureable?
You will assurely in a fit of pique right???
Therefore, please respect others.
There is saying that "people treat you the way you treat yourself"
If you treat them courteously they will treat you courteously as well.
If you are amiable to them they will be amiable to you.
On the other hand, if you treat them in an impolite, disrespectful or unfriendly way they will treat you back in the same way.
You almost get back in the same coin that you give.
They pick up your attitude and reflect it back to you.

As conclusion, you are not a gentleman at all because you do not even cultivate any qualities as I meantion above.

P/S You sux =)

BLUE BLACK

Accidently hit a chair...

And this was the result...

SCHOOL DAYS

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Lower Six Art 2

P/S The number of students who came to school on Thursday 17th of September.

GLOOMY

Sad

Down

Depressed

Pessimistic

Lugubrious

Heart Broken

......

= my feeling

SARCASM

Sarcasm is a form of humor that uses mean language which intended
to mock,
to contempt or
to ridicule others.
It may hurts that person directly or indirectly. (especially your friends...)

Different people have different perceptions and belief.
And what someone may consider to be harmless could actually be hurtful to another.
Some people are just plain mean.
They do not bother examining their own flaws before spouting insults casually.

Besides, sarcasm can be both witty and intelligent.
It does not happen by accident.
It is a tool wielded with deliberation .
It exists on both the verbal and the non-verbal plane.
Directed at others, it hurts others; directed at one’s self, it hurts one’s self.
Thus, stop judging.

Learn to observe without acting.
When you find yourself in judgment of others, remember that we are never more discontented with others than when we are discontented with ourselves."
Stop looking outward and start looking inward.
Stop making fun of others especially your friends.
You may think that insulting your friends are nothing as you guys are friends.
It is actually the most hurtful thing ever.
Try and imagine what if your friends were mocking at your shortcoming?
What do you feel?
The one that you can rely on and entrust is making fun of your weakness.
It is really that fun?
Indeed you are not just making others feel bad but making your self feel bad.
Remember that you have a choice every time you speak.
Try weighing everything you say.
Ask your self first whether it is necassary to speak it out or not.
If the answer is no then leave that thing unsaid.
On the contrary, if it is necassary to say it just find a way to say it kindly.
Replace your noxious old habit with a healing new habit.
The way people treat you is the outer reflection of your inner self-worth.
It is not necessary to speak aloud everything you think.
Between honesty and duplicity lies silence.
Choose silence.
Your cutting words are not averting any crises.
They create crises.
Think twice before you say...

TRUANCY

This is the result of playing truant.
So sweet~!!
Love you guys~ ♥ ♥ ♥

REALITY

Sometimes, the reality is hurt.
However we must confront with it.
Problems cannot be solved if we are concealing from the truth.

Be tough, take your guts to overcome it.
Do not have a cold feet to solve it.
In the process it maybe hurt.
You maybe lugubrious.
But if you do not take any actions, you will be overwhelmed by it or just stuck at there forever.
Especially when you are in a relationship and your partner are capitalizing on your shortcoming.

Wake up and be the one who initiates the solution.
Do not ever give yourself a false hope.
And the most indispensable is do not have cringe at your problems or engulfed by your feeling.
Retreating from problems is the trigger for everything.
As long as your problem is solved all your sadness will be quelled.

Last but not least, do not give yourself strung of excuses, everything is hinge on your decision and action.
So stop procrastinating and take your action now!

P/S it is just for myself...

ENMITY

Detested
Despised
Hated
Loathed
And
held a grudge against
Someone intensively...

DISASTROUS RELATIONSHIP

There are few signs when you are in a disaster relationship.
Firstly dishonesty.
Everyone tells white lies on occasion .
Some white lies do save relationships and some even ease a hectic situation.
However, frenquent white lies may exacerbate the situation as both of you do not know what are your partner really thinking.
Avoid concealling the truth from each other if it is possible.

Secondly, communication problems.
Many couples face communication problems.
It is a huge factor in a relationship.
They try to work on their problems yet always ending up in an argument.
Try to listen to your partner and hear what they want to tell you.
Feeling as though we are being heard and truly understood, sets an extremely positive climate in a relationship.
Think it in their perspective, what if when you are expressing yourself and your partner is not listening to you?
I wager that you will utterly agitated and ready to argue.
But when your partner hears what you are saying and paying attention on it, for no doubt, you will feel calm and delighted.
So it is just the same when you also do so on them.
And avoid having a dispute with your partner as it may frustrated one another.

Besides, putting the other on a pedestal and putting yourself down is also a sign of disastrous relationship.
It may sounds ridiculous or exaggerate but it is true.
Do not over admire someone.

Ultimately, distructive urge also will causes disastrous relationship.
Do not ever have an impulse on doing something which may hurt yourself or your partner.
Sometimes, it is useless to perpetuate the relationship that has already faded.
So learn to let go.

YOU

When I see the sun, I see you.
When I see the moon, I see you.
When I see the stars, I see you.
When I see the mountains, I see you.
.
..
...
....
.....
......
Hello!
Please la...
Tepi sikit la!
You are blocking my view...
LOL

SECRETS WISDOM ON BEING A MAN

There are few vital qualities that a man should have.

Firstly, man should show leadership.
When a situation needs to be dealt with, step forward.
Don't being dilatory or retreat from problems.
Women don't admire men who wait for others to solve their problems.
Therefore, man should be capable to lead others.

Secondly, be decisive.
If you avoid making decisions, you are avoiding your responsibilities.
Do not say,"It's up to you."
You may think you are being nice, but you may end up frustrating your partner.

Besides, man should take responsibility.
If something goes wrong, take responsibility and try to improve the situation.
Don't simply blame others for the way things are.
Be strong.
Curb your emotions.
Don't unleash your anger on your partner.
Blowing up in anger only harms yourself and the people you care about.
Women only fond on someone that they can rely.

PREJUDICE

Sometimes, life is just unfair.
For example guiltless people are sent to prison.
Where ever we are, there are injustices.
Why is that so?
Because of discrimination or contemptuousness?
Even in school, there are biased teachers who treat the students unfairly!!!!
Although you did not do something wrong,
they will have a bone to pick with you.
Can't that teachers being impartial to everyone?
How are the students supposed to abide the teacher if they are being treated unfairly?
Is it student must grin and bear it even though they are innocent?
Damn you Pn XXXX

GUYS

GUYS.
GUYS..
GUYS...
GUYS are odious animal!!

They are really incorrigible.
Always make the girls shed tears because of their utter idiocy.

Can't they treat the girls nicely?
Can't they appreciate the girls?
Can't they just care about the girls?
Can't they just spend a little of time with the girls whenever the girls are lugubrious?
Or just please stop making the girls weep???

Do you guys know that girls are sensitive and vulnerable???
Please stop giving a strung of excuses to forsake the girls...
Stop being dilatory...
Voice out the problems and face them!!!
And do not ever try to trifle with girl's heart...
It is not fun okay?
I just cannot forbear to see my friends being hurt just because of guys!!
Please stop making the girls wail because of your stupidity!!!

P/S : I mean some of the guys only.

SCHOOL RULES

There are two rules which are stated under the
"serious mistakes" section
in school rules, (S*b*)

- Uttering any porno words
(Mengeluarkan kata- kata lucah)
page 22
- Changing your sexuality
(Menjadi Pondan)
page 21

These two rules really made me howl with laughter.
Are them a humorous anecdote?
What is wrong with the saying porno words?
What if someone says filthy language such as F***.
Is that counted as porno?
And the changing sexuality is even funnier.
Sounds like a sexual discrimination.

TAN SHI YUN

"No man is an island"
It means that we cannot live without friends.
We need friends in happiness or even in sadness.
The same thing goes for me too.

I have few best friends yet there is the only one best friend of mine that we have known each other for 11 years.
Obviously that she is Tan Shi Yun! hahas

Shi Yun and I knew each other since we were in Primary One.
She is 18 years old the same age as me of course.
She is a golden hearted,amiable and cultivated girl.
She is very cute, pretty and has a bewitching grin.
If I were a boy, i will definitely infatuate with her
(both appearance and personality)

I still remember that during Primary One,
she asked my mom not to come to school during recess because she can accompany me.
How sweet of you Shi Yun!!! =P
She even helped me to scold those boys who laughed at me for some reasons.
Such a gutsy girl~~~
She has been inspirational to me all these years and always spurs me to do better in my life.
She is rightly considered as my pillar of strength!!!
( Thanks alot Shi Yun!!! )
I'm really glad that i could meet her and have a sweet sweet friend like her!!!!
Wish that our friendship will be immortal until the end of my life.
Lols.
Love you alot!!
"Smoochies"
MuacksszzZ!!!!



When we were 16 years old. =)


When we were in Form 5.



And the latest us.

P/S: I do really feel happy to have you as my best friend!!!
Hope that you will not forget us when you go to Sunway.
(I mean I hope that our relationship will be still that secure)

MONEY

Money is not everything yet everything needs money!!!

In this era, money is decidedly indispensable to us...
Tuition fees,
School fees,
Books,
Living expenses,
None of above does not need money...

Why tree does not grow money?!!
And who the hell that created money???
I really cannot conceive how are we going to live without money...

In conclusion, money is utterly essential!!!!!!
I really wish that i could be a millionaire or just marry to a millionaire!!!!!
Then I will have a carefree life ever...

MONKEY

This afternoon, the bloody hell hideous asshole monkey came to my house.
Fortunately that when it was trying to pull my kitten Pok Pok 's tail and torture it,
we reached home in the nick of time.

He promptly ran up to the roof.
This moron really made me had a grudge againts monkey!!!
Really brainless...
I have not seen such an aggressive monkey before...
And the funniest thing was,
no one noticed that my another kitten was hiding inside the flowerpot!!!!
Because its fur colour is resemble to the soil, dirt or even clay.
It is almost the same as the animal camouflage,
could blend in with its environment so that the others might overlook them.
I think i should named it bin sek mao.
hahahas...

And if i see this monkey, I swear i will not slaugther but neuter it!!!!!!
Make it howls in pain and suffer in the agony of the "bapok world!!!


Pok Pok a.K.a Hak mAo

Pok Pok aNd Bin sEk mAo XD

MORON

According to Collins Cobuild Dictionary,
moron refer to someone that is very stupid.

Here is an example of a moron, *** ***
***** is
immensely,
tremendously,
enormously,
utterly
a genuine moron that i have not seen ever.

He could shatter a girl's heart into thousand of pieces but not try to appreatiate her at all.
He could bear to see the girl's tears welling up in her eyes but not try to comfort or even care about her.
Therefore, here are some advices for the girls.
Please don't judge a man by his appearance.
He looks dumb and seems like a Mr.Nice but in fact he is not!!!
Therefore, Becareful whenever you are choosing a boyfriend!!!
Don't let a morron like him to ruin your life!!!

15 MINUTES

Enraged?
Flew into rage?
In a fury?
Furious?

It was not the time for the meeting yet.
It was still another 15minutes to go.
And we were still confused whether to join or not to join ****
So we were discussing it outside the class room.
Suddenly someone shouted at us.
He reprimanded us for making him to wait for us for 15minutes???
What the heck??????
Dude!!!!
The meeting will be started promptly at 2.50p.m!!!
And it was not 2.50p.m yet??
Look at your watch properly!!!
It was only 2.30p.m.
And there was still 20 minutes to go???
Why the hell you scolded us for wasted your 15minutes???
Are you using a faulty watch or what???
What a balderdash...
You had made us immensely moody and ruined our day!!!!!!!!
Thank you so much...

SICK

Dizzy
Nauseated
Lacked of appetite
Body ache
Lethargic

Conclusion= God bless me...

5TH OF JUNE

HaPPY biRthDaY to you~
HaPPY biRthDaY to you~~
HaPPY biRthDaY to Ker Lee
HaPPY biRthDaY to you~~~!!! <3
HaPPY biRthDaY to my Honey Curly( Ker Lee) ~!!!

muAcKsSSSS <3 ~!!!!!!!!
Finally 18 years old already~!!!
You can watch 18sx, 18sg and18pl movie already~LOL


Honey~ muAcksSSs

cHocoLate Cake~

MR.MCD

Main character= Mr.Mcd

Located at Megamall.

It happened on last thursday.

When we were loitering at the mall we saw this!!!

Where was Mr.Mcd hand pointing at???

Was he helping the next shop to promote??

Utterly Lame~!!
Hahaha

LOL.

BLOG

What does BLOG mean?
What does BLOG stand for?
Is it a verb? Or an adjective?
If you didn't know the meaning of the word, you will never guess what it really is.

For examples,
1. She is very blog.
2. You are such a blog!
3. He has a blog.
4. Could you stop blogging me?

Haha! Well BLOG actually stands for Web log.
In general, it's just a section on your page that you can choose to write anything that you want, such as your daily plans and so on.
Ultimately it's just like your DIARY.
Okay i'm such a blog now! LOL.